Embrace. No regret. No looking down. :)

     On a daily basis, I have been checking my social media profile and my news feeds as well. I do this a multiple times a day. There are these schemes I usually can observe from my Facebook friends and fellow instagram users most especially teenage girls. 9gag had already addressed these stuffs though (those posts of memes and trolls?) but I would want to share my say for my third entry. So please allow me?

      The first one goes like this:

       

                        Caption: "Sorry for looking so ugly!" or "So ugly my face, Eew!" (haha)

      Okay, I'm guilty. I remembered I had one picture captioned this way but that was 5 years ago or so, way back when I was new to friendster. Yes, friendster days. The camera was not that clear (around 1.3 to 2.o mp) at the time so I had a valid excuse to call the photo ugly, kidding, honestly as I look back, I can not remember why I had it that way. Haha, throwback (it's a Thursday). Anyways, this style of captioning is still common to my facebook friends now. I mean it is 2013 people, even phones are now capable of taking super clear pictures, beauty cameras are even available. And besides, if you think you are ugly, why effort to upload it and let the world see? You know yourself that we only put things in display because we think it is beautiful, that it can sell as if the clothes we put on mannequins.

      So girls, embrace yourselves. Tell yourself you are beautiful and not the other way. I think this is some kind of mechanism that exhibits your humility but I tell you, people do not think of it that way. People would actually think that this you are saying about your own picture is nothing but pathetic and cheesy. It would seem you are some person seeking for attention. Would you want to be given that kind of impression? Because for me, I do not think so.

              The second one: Supposing these pictures are in some collage.

Caption: "I miss my long hair, huhu. Please grow fast. :( "

         What can I say? I do not say it is bad to reminisce, it is always good to look back. Fun memories, fun times. It is just that in regards to your hair, you had obviously made your decision final to cut it short. Whatever reasons, it was decided already, so why regret and shout it to the world? I mean you know you are beautiful even when your hair's shorter right? Because you wouldn't cut it in the first place when you don't think you will be?

           This is just the point I'm making. Instead of posting pictures of regrets, why not flaunt your new look? Surprise people with the transformation and enjoy the attention. :)

                                      "Confidence boosts beauty."